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Parent Tips 4 min read · 2025-09-19

A Parent's First Month Preparing for the 11+

You've decided to prepare for the 11+. Here's exactly what to do in the first 30 days — without overwhelming you or your child.

The first month of 11+ preparation is, frankly, the most important one. Get it right and you set the tone for a calm, productive year. Get it wrong and you risk burnout before the real work begins. Here's a slow, sensible 30-day plan.

Week 1: Audit, don't act

Don't buy ten workbooks. Spend the first week observing — what does your child enjoy reading? Where do they hesitate in mental maths? Is spelling a strength or a struggle? Practice now with a short trial to get a quick baseline.

Week 2: Build a reading routine

Twenty minutes of reading a day, ideally aloud for some of it. A mix of fiction (to build vocabulary and inference) and non-fiction (to build stamina with denser texts) works best.

Week 3: Introduce one subject at a time

Pick the weakest of the four areas and start there with short, low-pressure questions. Avoid mock papers for now.

Week 4: A first short timed session

Set a 10-minute timer. Aim for engagement, not perfection. Celebrate the effort — the score isn't the point at this stage.

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